Thanks for the suggestions guys.
'Give it the beans' really reminds me why I bought this car. A few drives since my first post and I am much more 'in sync' with the car. I get what she is trying to do. A bit more practice and I'll see if I can change the gearbox behavior a little bit with the gas pedal (slight gradual pressing to hold a gear, lift off to up shift, etc...)
I think this where the car gets it's most negative feedback from. It is not something that you can jump in and start perfecting right away. Maybe why ZF gearboxes are getting more attention.
I like what was said here that this car has character. She almost feel alive at times. I quite enjoy that. There was never a relationship without issues to be worked through, it makes the total bigger than the sum of its parts. It help us grow and understand. It is like she is saying, "I'm not easy, but I will be fun if you are willing to put in the effort, do you have what it takes?"
I know that after a short while, this car will be my best friend.